Gordon Shaw
DHA Licensed Counselling Psychologist
- Master’s (MA, South Africa)
- 8 years of experience
Works with clients
- 18+
Languages
- English
Gordon Shaw
DHA Licensed Counselling Psychologist in Dubai | Trauma, EMDR & Couples Therapy
Gordon Shaw is a Counselling Psychologist in Dubai, based at Belle Vie Wellness Centre. He is licensed by the Dubai Health Authority (DHA) and registered with the Community Development Authority (CDA), and provides psychotherapy for adults and couples across Dubai and the wider UAE.
Trained in South Africa, Gordon specialises in trauma therapy, EMDR therapy, Schema Therapy, and psychodynamic psychotherapy. His work focuses on trauma, attachment, anxiety, depression, burnout, and relationship difficulties. Drawing from relational and neuroscientific approaches, he helps clients understand not only their symptoms, but the deeper emotional and developmental origins underlying them.
Trauma Therapy and EMDR in Dubai
Gordon is an accredited EMDR therapist and Schema Therapist working with adults experiencing trauma, complex developmental trauma, anxiety, depression, emotional dysregulation, relationship difficulties, burnout, identity struggles, perfectionism, grief, and complex developmental wounds. His trauma therapy work helps clients move beyond survival-based coping mechanisms toward greater emotional integration, authenticity, and relational security.
A core aspect of Gordon’s therapeutic philosophy is that many psychological difficulties are rooted in developmental adaptations formed within early relational environments. Developmental trauma is not always overt abuse; often it is chronic emotional inconsistency, emotional neglect, invalidation, or environments where individuals learned to suppress parts of themselves to maintain connection, safety, or acceptance. These early experiences shape the nervous system, attachment patterns, self-worth, emotional regulation, and relational functioning long into adulthood.
Many high-functioning adults in Dubai continue to operate from survival responses developed earlier in life, including hyper-independence, perfectionism, emotional inhibition, people-pleasing, overthinking, chronic self-criticism, avoidance, or difficulties with vulnerability and intimacy. Gordon’s work helps clients understand these patterns not as personal failures, but as intelligent adaptations that once served a protective function.
Couples Therapy in Dubai
Gordon provides couples therapy in Dubai using Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). His couples counselling addresses attachment dynamics, communication breakdowns, emotional safety, conflict cycles, betrayal trauma, intimacy difficulties, and rebuilding secure emotional connection within relationships.
His therapeutic style is reflective, emotionally attuned, insight-oriented, and direct, integrating depth psychology and practical intervention strategies to support meaningful and lasting psychological change.
Qualifications
- Master’s (MA) in Community-Based Counselling Psychology (2018, South Africa)
- Bachelors (BA Hons) in Psychology (2015, University of the Witwatersrand, South Africa)
Treatment Approaches
- Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
- EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing)
- Schema Therapy
- Gottman Method Couples Therapy
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- CBT-Informed Interventions
- Attachment-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Informed Integrative Psychotherapy
Licences & Professional Memberships
- Dubai Health Authority (DHA), UAE
- Community Development Authority (CDA), UAE
- Health professions Council of South Africa (HPCSA)
Areas of Expertise
- Trauma and Complex Developmental Trauma
- Attachment and Relationship Difficulties
- Anxiety, Overthinking, and Emotional Dysregulation
- Depression and Burnout
- Personality Dynamics and Longstanding Relational Patterns
- Emotional Neglect and Childhood Trauma
- Perfectionism, Shame, and Self-Criticism
- Identity, Self-Worth, and Life Transitions
- Couples Therapy and Relationship Repair
- Betrayal Trauma and Attachment Injuries
- Nervous System Regulation and Trauma Recovery
- Men’s Mental Health and Emotional Inhibition
- Grief, Loss, and Adjustment Difficulties
- High-Functioning Professionals Under Chronic Stress
- Cross-Cultural and Expat Psychological Adjustment